Archive for June, 2009

45 Lessons

Monday, June 15th, 2009

I have no idea who Regina Brett is and this could quite possibly be just another cheezy chain email BUT I’m glad I got it and it made me feel better after having a pretty rough week/weekend. Just thought I’d share!

 

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Written By Regina Brett, 90 years old, of The Plain Dealer, Cleveland,

Ohio



 

“To celebrate growing older, I once wrote the 45 lessons life taught me.
It is the most-requested column I’ve ever written.


 

My odometer rolled over to 90 in August, so here is the column once
more:



 

1. Life isn’t fair, but it’s still good.



 

2. When in doubt, just take the next small step.



 

3. Life is too short to waste time hating anyone.



 

4. Your job won’t take care of you when you are sick. Your friends and
parents will. Stay in touch.



 

5. Pay off your credit cards every month.



 

6. You don’t have to win every argument. Agree to disagree.



 

7. Cry with someone. It’s more healing than crying alone.



 

8. It’s OK to get angry with God. He can take it.



 

9. Save for retirement starting with your first paycheck.



 

10. When it comes to chocolate, resistance is futile.



 

11. Make peace with your past so it won’t screw up the present.



 

12. It’s OK to let your children see you cry.



 

13. Don’t compare your life to others. You have no idea what their
journey is all about.



 

14. If a relationship has to be a secret, you shouldn’t be in it.



 

15. Everything can change in the blink of an eye. But don’t worry; God
never blinks.



 

16. Take a deep breath. It calms the mind.



 

17. Get rid of anything that isn’t useful, beautiful or joyful.



 

18. Whatever doesn’t kill you really does make you stronger.



 

19. It’s never too late to have a happy childhood. But the second one is
up to you and no one else  



 

20. When it comes to going after what you love in life, don’t take no
for an answer.



 

21. Burn the candles, use the nice sheets, wear the fancy lingerie.
Don’t save it for a special occasion. Today is special.



 

22. Over prepare, then go with the flow.



 

23. Be eccentric now. Don’t wait for old age to wear purple.



 

24. The most important sex organ is the brain.



 

25. No one is in charge of your happiness but you.



 

26. Frame every so-called disaster with these words ‘In five years, will
this matter?’



 

27. Always choose life.



 

28.. Forgive everyone everything.



 

29. What other people think of you is none of your business.



 

30. Time heals almost everything. Give time time.



 

31. However good or bad a situation is, it will change.



 

32. Don’t take yourself so seriously. No one else does.



 

33. Believe in miracles.



 

34. God loves you because of who God is, not because of anything you did
or didn’t do.



 

35. Don’t audit life. Show up and make the most of it now.



 

36. Growing old beats the alternative — dying young.



 

37. Your children get only one childhood.



 

38. All that truly matters in the end is that you loved.



 

39. Get outside every day. Miracles are waiting everywhere.



 

40. If we all threw our problems in a pile and saw everyone else’s, we’d
grab ours back.



 

41. Envy is a waste of time. You already have all you need.



 

42. The best is yet to come.



 

43. No matter how you feel, get up, dress up and show up.



 

44. Yield.



 

45. Life isn’t tied with a bow, but it’s still a gift.

Life Lately

Sunday, June 14th, 2009

It hasn’t taken long for me to get back into my work-non-stop-incredibly-anti-social routine out here in Los Angeles. The first couple weeks were probably the best since Christine, my roommate and best friend from Florida, was still in town. She kept me company throughout the whole 3,000 mile drive here!  

 

Once we got into town, we had a blast! Went paddle boarding, ate at a few hole-in-the-wall restaurants which were all amazingly delicious and roamed a few streets to check out the area! Not to mention, it was nearing the end of the NBA East coast finals, so we had to root for the Magic at few local bars! It was the start of a great move and then she went to San Francisco to visit family. I miss her so much, but I got really lucky in meeting a handful of great people out here! Eventually, I’ve been able to meet a some of their friends so I’m feeling pretty good about my social situation. Especially since I moved out here not knowing a soul.

 

Finally made it to LA! Enjoying the first sunset!

Finally made it to LA! Enjoying the first sunset!

 

As far as my internship at TBWA\Chiat\Day - I LOVE IT! I’m an account management intern on the Mars account, specifically for Pedigree, but I also help out with Temptations, Whiskas and The Good Life Recipe. I still walk around the agency feeling incredibly fortunate to have landed the internship! There weren’t many interns there yet since they were all arriving the beginning of this month, but there were three that I got to know pretty quickly when I arrived. Two interning for Media Arts, even though one was just finishing up his Spring internship, and the other for Visa. It totally helped that we were all set up on “Intern Row”, a serious of computers and desks right next to each other for some of the interns to use. Now, there are like twenty other interns, but they are scattered throughout the agency, closers to their teams and have their own desks. Just on Intern Row, there are seven us. Three working on Mars, two on Visa and two on Media Arts.

 

The View From Intern Row

 

The actual work I’m doing is pretty interesting too. It’s kind of repetitive since this is my seventh internship, but practice makes perfect, right? I’m learning new ways to research, through lots of new resources, becoming way more efficient at PowerPoint and most importantly- HAVING FUN! My team usually gives me something cool and enticing to work on. Obviously, it IS an internship and there is the occasional ‘paper pushing’, but even people who have actual paying jobs do it and most of the time it HAS to get done, so I have no qualms about doing it either.

 

It doesn’t stop there! I’m also taking one day a week to volunteer at the Boys & Girls Club of Venice. After getting the O-K from my background check, I was able to start this past week. Their summer program begins June 29th, so they are getting their orientation started to make sure all the parents know what to expect and how they can help ensure a safe and smooth summer for all the kids! Since the director knows I’m going to school for Advertising & Marketing, he’s having me help in the Marketing Department. I’m glad that he was considerate enough to think of me and my education. I did let him know, however, that I’d like to spend some time with the kids and help out with some outdoor activites, if there was an opportunity to do so. There’s a chance that I could be helping  out with their sailing class, which would be AWESOME since I’ve been wanting to learn how to sail and I’ll get to be out on the water. SUPER stoked about that!

 

Finally, my job. It’s like being out here is a mini-vacation, but then I remember that I have bills to pay! There’s also having the cost of going out and it’s crazy how quickly that all adds up. Just being out here costs a lot and I’m lucky enough to have my Mom helping me out with my living situation. I think she knows she’ll be getting all of her money back when I will be making the big bucks- haha! I do work a lot, though. It gets kind of frustrating and I feel like I’m not getting to enjoy as much of Los Angeles and California as I would like to, but then again, I have to keep reminding myself that I’m here for Chiat. Everything else is just a big bonus. Like I’ve said before, if given the option to move out here post graduation- I woud do it in a heartbeat.  But yah- my job. It’s great for what it’s worth. I must say, I do miss the people at my old restaurant. They are just so much more fun to work with! Here, people wig out when they’re stressed out (which is most of the time), but back in Orlando, we would laugh and make the best of it! But that’s not going to change, so there’s no dwelling. I’m going to try to enjoy it and stay as positive as I can. I’m only working there ’til August anyway!

 

And there you have it! Just a bit of the beautiful, hard working life I have.  Haha! Whatever, it’ll all pay off one day- I know it. There’s a few other personal things that are on my mind, but if I could just take my own advice – I’d be fine. It’s just the unknown that scares me. All the “what-ifs” and not knowing if the decision you made is the right one and whether or not it’ll turn around and bite you in the ass one day. But I’ll learn! Who knows, I may just dish it out and write a big, long post about it!

 

-Sarah

Finding What Motivates You

Wednesday, June 10th, 2009
The more I thought about writing this post, the more I thought about how hypocritical I could come off. Everyone has their days, right? The hangover hell hole feeling when you’re at work after what was a fun night of partying. Or “the case of the mondays” that seem to stretch throughout the whole week. Or how about just have a crappy day and just being totally unmotivated?
 
Yah, I have those days time to time, but especially as a student and an intern – regardless of what company or school – I feel like you have to take advantage of every opportunity and if none are presented to you, then you need to create your own.
 
For example, as a server, it’s so important to help each other out. Whether it’s doing your part to keep your section of the restaurant clean or help out a co-worker who is in the ”weeds” (meaning that they’re drowning in stuff to do for all their tables and they can’t handle it on their own).  This is mostly what made me write this entry. Working at the restaurant in California is totally different than it is back home. From the guest to the people I work with, it all took a few days getting use to. The only thing left is getting use to holding up all the dead weight that’s there. There’s a few servers who can be held accountable for actually doing their job, but it’s like all the others just want to half-ass it, make THEIR money and peace out. They complain when glasses haven’t been restocked or when they can’t find something else they may need BUT YET,THEY DO NOTHING ABOUT IT! And then when you call them out, they make some lame excuse. So it’s up to you to make sure things get done.
 
1. Inability to put forth the effort to complete any task.
No one likes a slacker.

 

Funny thing is, I use to be that person. I use to be the person that didn’t care and was super selfish. I had an excuse for anything and everything. Then I grew up. Kind of. Still a work in progress, but with the help of setting goals and being really passionate about something has really helped. I’m learning to apply that in other aspects of my life too. I guess it’s finding what motivates you. For some, it’s money. Others, making Mom & Dad proud. For me, it’s a mix of not dissapointing people, learning and being proud of myself & my work.

 

So, whatever you do- do it with pride as it’s a representation of who you are. When you mess up, buck up and accept it. Then learn from it and make sure you kick ass at it next time!

 
I’m interested to know what motivates you?
 
-Sarah